Make no mistake: God is not mocked, for a person will reap only what he sows.
I was definitely unprepared for the conviction that would come from these messages, and I felt myself getting down, reflecting on all the poor seeds I've sewn and the problems I'm now reaping. Often when people challenge or criticize us in life, it's not out of a spirit of caring but out of competition or envy. It can hurt when people call us out on "our stuff" when it's not done in the right manner or with the best intentions. We all struggle with insecurity, so comments that challenge us can leave us feeling unloved, unwanted, and even unlovable.
Though "God is not mocked" and he does rebuke and discipline us when we need correction (and it's usually the fact that those changes will be painful), the bottom line is he does it out of love. God is love; he loves us for who we are not what we do. And God is jealous; he wants all of us, all of our hearts and our lives. Because he's a perfect and loving father, his love corrects us when we go astray. He does this not because God gets a kick out of seeing us squirm, but because he has greater things in store for us in the future.
He takes away every branch in me that does not bear fruit, and everyone that does he prunes so that it bears more fruit... As the Father loves me, so I also love you. Remain in my love. (John 15.2,9)God loves you. He is your heavenly Father, and like a father disciples his children, so God may be disciplining you just as he's disciplining me. Always remember to keep in mind that it is done out of love and with the intention of blessing you more in the future.
p.s. I really do apologize for the title of this post -- I just couldn't help myself.